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Common Responses to Trauma and Coping Strategies

The following article shall help you to understand your traumatic reactions better. The conclusion at the bottom of this article ties in with Dr Berceli’s findings – that trauma is common and inevitable and ultimately a chance for growth and evolution. The real problem lies in the fact that NORMAL reactions to ABNORMAL events are [...]

What TRE can do for you !

TRE is based on the body’s natural, inborn ability to release repressed and stored energy via ‘neurogenic tremors’. While it is especially effective in reducing stress related symptoms, people from all over the world and diverse circumstances have reported and testified that tremoring has restored theirunique individual range of problems and symptoms. If you have [...]

TRE (Trauma Release Exercise)

Through many years of living with and observing traumatized people in war and desaster areas Dr. David Berceli Ph.D. noticed that ‘Neurogenic Tremors’, a shivering sensation that originates in the Psoas muscle is a natural physical response to trauma. Nearly everyone has experienced those tremors in some way as a temporary uncontrollable shaking. It is [...]

Life’s a waste !?

> Have you ever thought that your life’s a waste ? Well, add some light and some perspective and see what happens !

Common Responses to Trauma and Coping Strategies

The following article shall help you to understand your traumatic reactions better. The conclusion at the bottom of this article ties in with Dr Berceli’s findings – that trauma is common and inevitable and ultimately a chance for growth and evolution. The real problem lies in the fact that NORMAL reactions to ABNORMAL events are being viewed and treated as if they were a illness – thus people tend to marginalize and suppress them unless they are overwhelmed.

A radical change needs to take place and those who suffer in silence need to rise up and claim their rights – they are not sick, their survival reactions and coping strategies are perfectly normal. Whenever people understand this,  find a way to reconnect with their own body and trust their own senses and reasoning, they have a real chance to heal.

Common Responses to Trauma and Coping Strategies

Patti Levin, LICSW, PsyD
© 1989, 2001, 2003, 2004 by Dr. Patti Levin

After a trauma, people may go though a wide range of normal responses.

Such reactions may be experienced not only by people who experienced the trauma first-hand, but by those who have witnessed or heard about the trauma, or been involved with those immediately affected. Many reactions can be triggered by persons, places, or things associated with the trauma. Some reactions may appear totally unrelated.

Here is a list of common physical and emotional reactions to trauma, as well as a list of helpful coping strategies.

These are NORMAL reactions to ABNORMAL events.

Physical Reactions

aches and pains like headaches, backaches, stomach aches

sudden sweating and/or heart palpitations (fluttering)

changes in sleep patterns, appetite, interest in sex

constipation or diarrhea

easily startled by noises or unexpected touch

more susceptible to colds and illnesses

increased use of alcohol or drugs and/or overeating

 

Emotional Reactions

shock and disbelief

fear and/or anxiety

grief, disorientation, denial

hyper-alertness or hypervigilance

irritability, restlessness, outbursts of anger or rage

emotional swings — like crying and then laughing

worrying or ruminating — intrusive thoughts of the trauma

nightmares

flashbacks — feeling like the trauma is happening now

feelings of helplessness, panic, feeling out of control

increased need to control everyday experiences

minimizing the experience

attempts to avoid anything associated with trauma

tendency to isolate oneself

feelings of detachment

concern over burdening others with problems

emotional numbing or restricted range of feelings

difficulty trusting and/or feelings of betrayal

difficulty concentrating or remembering

feelings of self-blame and/or survivor guilt

shame

diminished interest in everyday activities or depression

unpleasant past memories resurfacing

loss of a sense of order or fairness in the world; expectation of doom and fear of the future

 

Helpful Coping Strategies

mobilize a support system and reach out and connect with others, especially those who may have shared the stressful event

talk about the traumatic experience with empathic listeners

cry

hard exercise like jogging, aerobics, bicycling, walking

relaxation exercise like yoga, stretching, massage

humor

prayer and/or meditation; listening to relaxing guided imagery; progressive deep muscle relaxation

hot baths

music and art

maintain balanced diet and sleep cycle as much as possible

avoid over-using stimulants like caffeine, sugar, or nicotine

commitment to something personally meaningful and important every day

hug those you love, pets included

eat warm turkey, boiled onions, baked potatoes, cream-based soups as these are tryptophane activators, which help you feel tired but good

proactive responses toward personal and community safety – organize or do something socially active

write about your experience in in detail, just for yourself or to share with others

People are usually surprised that reactions to trauma can last longer than they expected. It may take weeks, months, and in some cases, many years to fully regain equilibrium. Many people will get through this period with the help and support of family and friends. But sometimes friends and family may push people to “get over it” before they’re ready. Let them know that such responses are not helpful for you right now, though you appreciate that they are trying to help.

The Chinese character for crisis is a combination of two words — danger and opportunity. People who fully engage in recovery from trauma discoverunexpected benefits. As they gradually heal their wounds, survivors find that they are also developing inner strength,compassion for others, increasing self-awareness, and often themost surprising — a greater ability to experience joy and serenity than ever before.

 

What TRE can do for you !

TRE is based on the body’s natural, inborn ability to release repressed and stored energy via ‘neurogenic tremors’.

While it is especially effective in reducing stress related symptoms, people from all over the world and diverse circumstances have reported and testified that tremoring has restored theirunique individual range of problems and symptoms.

If you have experienced emotional or physical trauma or both and you know that your life would be easier and more balanced without this experience, you have found a way to get well again.

 

 

 

 

If you have tried to talk about your trauma and found that it aggravates your symptoms, you have now found a way to get well again.

 

 

 

 

 

If you know that you suffer from chronic stress, anxiety, worry, looped thinking, if you struggle to be quiet and relaxed and wish you could stop the treadmill of thoughts, you have found a way to get well again.

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you suffer from pain related to old injuries, lower back pain or stress related headaches you have found a way to get well again.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you want to strengthen your mind-body connection, learn to feel your emotions without judging, practice inner body awareness and become more grounded you have found a way to do that.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Browse through the testmonies of people from all over the world (follow the links below) to read and hear what TRE has done for them.

TRE has been found effective for the following conditions:

Listen to an interview with David Berceli on ‘Conscious Media Network’

Listen and watch a group of people giving feedback after tremoring at one of the TRE Workshops

Listen to an interview with David Berceli on South Africa’s ‘Carte Blance’ where he explains TRE in detail.

 


 

TRE (Trauma Release Exercise)

Through many years of living with and observing traumatized people in war and desaster areas Dr. David Berceli Ph.D. noticed that ‘Neurogenic Tremors’, a shivering sensation that originates in the Psoas muscle is a natural physical response to trauma. Nearly everyone has experienced those tremors in some way as a temporary uncontrollable shaking. It is relatively easy to stop, depending on the severity of the situation and the cultural etiquette. Dr Berceli noticed the tremors in children and adults alike, with the adults often trying and suceeding to supress them. He recognized, that those who went with the tremoring recovered much quicker – physically and mentally. Through his research and collaboration with Neurologists he found a way to trigger these natural neurogenic tremors via a set of six simple exercises. Everyone who is able to stand upright can do them and tremoring is triggered in everyone alike, children and grandfathers, black, brown, yellow or white, no matter what culture and language.

psoas muscle, trauma

After going through the set of exercises that are designed to evoke the neurogenic tremors everyone will have a first experience of tremoring. The tremors start in the legs and then move into the Psoas area of our body which is the lower back and pelvis.

A healthy Psoas muscle is essential to our wellbeing and healthy means that these two mighty  muscles needs to be flexible and strong at the same time. We cannot consciously tighten or relax our Psoas, it is under control of our Sympathetic Nervous System and there are reasons for this. A contraction of this muscle is triggered in traumatic/stressful situations.  The Psoas Mayor is the most important muscular connection between the upper body and the legs thus ensuring our ability to walk and run, to keep balance. In moments of danger and fear it contracts to bring our extremities together so we curl up to protect our vulnerable body parts. This muscle bears the brunt of our physical trauma response. If tensions in this muscle remain unreleased over a period of time it can become chronically stiff, inflexible or even shortened. In this unrelaxed state it will permanently send ‘danger signals’ through the Vagus Nerve which is part of our Sympathetic Nervous System into our brain and cause chemical imbalances that affect our emotional wellbeing.
Although the tremoring starts in the middle of our body it gradually spreads. Depending on our ability to ‘let go’ of control all areas of our body can shake. Session for session more muscles are being relaxed and joints realigned. The body regains strength because muscles that have – unbeknown to the conscious mind – been used for support and stability throughout the body are now free to move again and become flexible. Through the neurological connection between the Psoas and the Vagus Nerve comes a relief that is felt mentally. The relaxed and flexible muscles ‘signal’ the brain the absence of ‘danger’ and the brain gradually stops the release of substances that were triggered, sometimes a long time ago.

David Berceli Trauma Release Exercise

David Berceli Ph.D.

During our four day workshop with David Berceli we heard numerous testimonies from participants who were astounded by the fact that their body clearly and unmistakably ‘remembered’ traumatic experiences: After an accident involving the knee, tremoring will be most strongy felt in this area, an fall from the bicyle years ago that affected the shoulder will trigger tremors there. David Berceli added to this from his own experience of working with PTSD disgnosed war veterans, a soldier who was severely traumatized in a fighting situation with his fingers on the trigger experienced a long period of tremoring in his hands. People who were traumatized by abuse and experienced freezing and/or curling up in self-protection have had waves of tremors throughhout their body that caused the extremities to stretch and open up.

David Berceli describes tremoring as a discharge of stored energy that is felt as tension. TRE effects a return to more flexibility, balance and grounding in the body with an increased mental sense of safety and energy.

While he has decided to bring his Trauma Release Exercises personally to those who need it most ( in war and desaster zones) he also trains TRE Practitioners all over the world. Every TRE Practitioner has to go though the process of experiencing the effect of tremoring regularly – in their own body and mind. I am greatful for this requirement and can testify to profound changes.

 

 

Life’s a waste !?

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Have you ever thought that your life’s a waste ?

Well, add some light and some perspective and see what happens !

What exactly is Trauma ?

Traumatic experience is common and natural, it cannot be avoided. It is a physiological experience that has repercussions on our mental state. Trauma is defined as a state of high arousal – being overwhelmed by sense perceptions, often combined with intense fear.

Traumatic experience is often divided into emotional and physical trauma. I step beyond this distinction and state that :

The separation between MIND and BODY is an illusion – in reality it is THE CONNECTION between mind and body, that makes us who we are.

The connection is facilitated by our EMOTIONS.  Emotions are physical sensations. Only with the learning of language and reasoning they become mental ‘states’ that are categorized, judged, wished for or suppressed. EMOTIONS are the language of our body and the mind learns to ‘translates’ and ‘understand’ this language. How we react to the sense perceptions called emotions is highly individual, our capacity to memorize and reason opens a myriad of possibilities.

If EMOTIONS are the CONNECTION between MIND and BODY – where is the line between normal emotions and trauma ?

Traumatic experience

The diagram shows a hierarchy of natural responses to challenges and stressors. You will note that fighting and fleeing are not traumatic in itself – these responses are within our natural capability to save our life

Only if we can neither reconnect, fight or flee we enter the state of  TRAUMA. Traumatic responses are generated through an energy – overload in our nervous system in connection with the automatic release of chemicals into the body. Three distinct reactions are known but it is possible to experience one, two or all of them by drifting from one state into another.

1) Freezing – ranging from a sensation of ‘stiffness’, ‘being unable to move’ to feeling ‘invisible’ and/or ‘immovable’.
2) Flooding – ranging from crying and sobbing to shouting, hitting and blind rage.
3) Dissociation – ranging from consciously rejecting/ignoring the emotions to literally disconnecting from the body as if in a trance.

What happens AFTER the traumatic event ?

These reactions are supposed to be temporary and the body should be allowed to return to its natural relaxed state. That is what we expect and what seems to happen, anger calms down, fear is diminished, the broken bone is healed but still – something is not right. The mind, meaning our constant stream of thoughts and inner dialogue, compulsively goes back to the traumatic event again and again. Fragments of the situation pop out of nowhere and we don’t know how to deal with this and how to stop it. If we constantly try to exert control we are at war with ourselves, in conflict. If we let the mind go back we have to re-live the trauma again. It seems like a Catch 22 situation.

BUT – There is a good reason for the mind wanting to ‘resolve’ the trauma. During a traumatic experience our sense perceptions are fragmented, we are overwhelmed, what is happening does not ‘make sense’. Often our ‘belief system’ is shattered because we ‘never thought it can happen to us’.  The facts cannot be integrated into our internal, rational compartments but our mind HAS TO organize sense perceptions, it’s her main occupation to label them and put them into context. Hence the fragments of trauma need to be integrated, lest we become mentally ill.

Here too, a lot of methods are subconsciously employed to do that:  We might find ourselves in similar situations again and again – even bring them about by repeating the very same behaviour that traumatised us. Every time we re-live a similar situation we have a chance to put the pieces into context and expand our belief system to integrate them. But this can take many years and until then we can feel constant stress and guilt and reject ourselves for self defeating behaviour. This is where rules and regulations appeal to us as a safety net, but in the end they restrict us further and increase the stress. Talking about remembered trauma, especially sharing it with people who have had similar experiences helps. It can be resolved by sharing and discovering the other side of it – acknowledging the wonderful survival protection we had and honouring the learning that results from the process of integration. Trauma can becomes an important part of personal history -  without the pain that used to be triggered. Many people have drawn wisdom and grace, health and a renewed appreciation of life from resolved trauma, it is possible and we know it.

But what about the deep seated, subconscious things that our mind cannot reach?

The fear and anger that is often out of proportion to the reality of a situation? What about the lingering pain in the arm that was hurt a long time ago? It comes and goes but never stays away for good. We come to accept it as being part of ‘who we are’. Not only this, we might actually become fond of it, embrace it as a token of bravery or a medal we won in the war of life. If it was gone altogether we would feel as if we had lost a part of ourselves. We use it to excuse our moods and our inability to change. It is as convenient as it is unhealthy.

Many approaches have been tried and people have found their own way out of this dilemma – often without knowing how it happened. Some give up and become victims for life, some develop depression or live with constant stress, anger and resentment.

Here is the catch:

The mind alone cannot resolve it because the memory of the trauma also resides in the body.

Our body has its own memory – every cell and membrane, nerve and muscle. The neurological system detects and transmits all of this to our subconscious mind in a constant stream of signals.  Chronically clenched and unrelaxed muscles send a constant signal of ‘danger’ to the brain and trigger the release of chemicals. An unbalanced hip or a weak knee might just seem a nuisance but where the skeletal body and the joints are out of balance, muscles have to add to stability – they become rigid and finally too short to do the work they were designed to do – enable a flow of energy – through flexibility and movement – throughout the body. Only of the emotion reaches a certain – indiviudally different – threshhold the conscious mind becomes aware of it and begins to interpret, judge, dismiss or react  And the conscious mind  is sometimes not helping but hindering the body in his self-healing capacity – it all depends on the quality of the mind-body connection – how both communicate their needs and ‘understand’ each other.

Instead of ‘subduing’ the body with the help of our mind we need to re-learn to listen to the feeling sensations in a new way. Instead of judging those feelings immediately and suppressing them we need to let them be what they are in the first place – physical sensations. The mind must be taught to listen to the body and reach a better, deeper, new interpretation. Only then we can act on what we feel and be sure to serve our real needs. Listening INTO our body is essential, and knowing that there is an abundant resource of renewal and healing available from within.

I researched several ways of engaging the body and restoring the mind-body connection. It is true that exercise and fitness play a great role. All forms of exercise, Yoga, Aerobic and Martial Arts are valuable and healthy in itself. But trauma is a different thing altogether. In TRE I found a scientific yet easy and truly holistic method. TRE does not require you to learn another set of rules or embrace certain spiritual beliefs. It is a  proven and effective method that ‘works’ for everyone, regardless of culture, language and belief system.

Please visit THE BERCELI FOUNDATION , a Non-Profit Organisation helping people all over the world to recover from trauma.

Go For Change !

NO ONE CAN AVOID IT – LIFE IS CHANGE and CHANGE IS LIFE

Do you feel stuck ? Overwhelmed ? Stressed ? Do you face tough decisions ?Are you just waiting for something to happen ? Is indecisivness and procrastination hindering you to go forward ? Are you recovering from the loss of a partner, child or parent? Has divorce knocked at your door ? Do you know you need a career change ?  A better job and more money ? Are you struggling with codependency  in a relationship ?

Life teaches us lessons and invites us to learn from them so we can grow.

If you look beyond your own problems and realize what people all over the world have endured and overcome, against all odds, with seemingly little resources, in the midst of lack – money or otherwise – you may admit that there could be more to a difficult situation or a crisis – more than just tears and desperation.

In fact there is more. It’s what you make of WHAT IS, this very moment – NOW.  How you look at it, treat it, welcome or reject it. NOW is always WOW ! Can you welcome a crisis ? Yes you can so that ! When the crisis is there, it’s a fact and you better welcome and acknowledge facts. It’s the basis for CHANGE. You think you cannot stop being anxious and worried? Has worrying and fretting helped you to find good solutions in the past ?

You know that your attitude towards change determines much of the outcome, if not all. You are prepared to work at your attitude. But there are persistent blocks that constantly throw you back into old habits and thought patterns, into self-defeating behaviour and a victim mentality. You have an opinion as to what they are and why they are there but no handle on how to get past that. How to overcome it, change it for good.

Yet there are people who did just that and you know it is possible

You have heard about LIFE COACHING. You know it’s about positive thinking, changing your beliefs and living in line with your true values. But you doubt that a Personal Coach can help you with those hard-wired blocks that mostly escape your own mind. I don’t blame you. I thought the same and you are right when you say that positive thinking and attitude alone is not enough. The conscious mind is not that powerful, if it was, we would all be healthy and free.

Your mind is a tool. If you learn to see it as such and use it when it is appropriate and in the right way it is a powerful tool. YOU are more than your mind. You can observe your mind, judge your thoughts, have an internal dialog with yourself.

Many people are afraid of their subconscious mind. The huge storehouse of memories and sense perceptions has a bad reputation. It is declared responsible for a lot of things we do and say, we are taught to distrust and dislike it. Wrong ! There was no way we would be able to survive one day without this wonderful autopilot. The problem lies in the connection between our conscious and subconscious mind, it needs to be aligned and synchronized and not distorted or cut off. The content of the subconscious mind is connected to emotions. Emotions are felt through the physical body and evoke conscious thoughts or lead us to act or both. Emotions can be dealt with in various ways but they cannot be ignored. If you let them reign, they play havoc on your mind, if you suppress them they make your body ill.

What is the solution ?

Begin to listen to your thoughts and feel your emotions without judging or ignoring and suppressing them. Get real with who you are ! Accept yourself as you are. Then look for clues that tell you what you really need. What do you value? What fuels your enthusiasm? Your love? What inspires you? When do you feel strong and sure? What is truly important to you ? Real and sustainable change can only be achieved by strengthening the good and healthy (feel-good-think-good) connections between mind and emotions and starving the hindering and unhealthy ones to death. Yes, you cannot just cut them off or ignore them, they need to die from lack of nourishment.

How ?

Learn to live in the present. Don’t allow your mind to be occupied with past and future most of the time. Allow yourself to make GOOD experiences ! NOW. Push through using the gifts and talents you already have and many doors will open. Don’t just think, don’t just talk, DO what you have resolved to do !

Get up and do the things you know to be good for you ! Put yourself first and value yourself. Listen to your body and follow his advice. Give your mind an inspiring goal to work with. Believe you can do it, step out and take action. Stop telling yourself who you are and what you can do, make room for surprises. Get in a fighting mood and take back what was taken from you or what you have been giving away too cheap.

I’ll teach you how, I’ll help you to get going and I will stand by you all the way until you get there. This is my offer for you as a Coach.

To read more about me, click here

To learn more about PERSONAL COACHING, click here

The Mind-Body Connection

There is nothing new or scientific about the mind-body connection, on an individual level we are all familiar with it, it’s the way we are meant to function. It ensures our survival, enables us to temporarily adjust to just about every circumstance and enables us to know what we needs to do and have or to avoid. Here are the basics: Read more

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